Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Let our emotions guide us and we wont get it wrong

My whole life was a jumble of emotions that I did not understand. As a child I was confused by my feelings because of what I was told by others, and I felt that it was wrong to have the feelings I had. It simply did not fit in with what others thought and spoke of, so that made me believe I was wrong and different.

We are never wrong when we follow our true deep set feeling and we need to explore our emotions without outside influences. We are born with true understanding and it is washed away from us by parents and peers as it was taken from them before us.You're told as a child everything you must do, say and how you must act by people who did not truly have the right answers. You are influenced at the most important time of learning and it is left to when you are an adult to make your own decisions, after deep set beliefs have been created and your personality has been formed, which is not necessarily your personality.

This is not a statement of blame or finger pointing, but a statement to invoke change, knowing this now means that the change that is needed is at our fingertips, and we are able to see a different future for our children. I know it is not the same for everyone and we are all different and that's the point so its time to beat the drum with a new rhythm and show the children that they have their own strengths and resources to bring themselves into alignment.

Guidance, love, understanding, but above all else letting them, and helping them, to build their own self belief and faith.The big question is how do we do it?Well, from the beginning, when we choose to enter this world, we have already made a decision for our lives. We enter with pure alignment with source and we are in complete knowing and understanding of our environment and we know only love.

We desire, and we receive and the Law of Attraction works perfectly because we have no knowledge of resistance. This then would seem that we should not be trying so much to teach, or guide children in every aspect of their lives, and to turn them in to mini moulds of ourselves, but may be we should listen to them more instead of shushing them up.As we can learn so much from animals we can learn from our children. I'm not suggesting we let them run amok, and I do believe that guidance is needed, but not in the way we have in the past.

Education is important, but maybe a new curriculum, that can be implemented at home, would help to even the balance. But most of all we need to listen more and know our children, understand their individual capabilities as soon as they develop. There is no substitute for spending time with them. I think that is where I'm leading with this, to the question of cancer in children.

I know that we have decided our physical experience before we arrive, and that the decisions have been made with the other people in our experience before we decide to manifest in these physical bodies.There are so many factors in our physical lives that we could not have known would happen. Other influences, from other people, having their own experiences; being influenced by other people having there own experiences, and so on.

How can we say we know what is best for our children unless we are in complete alignment with ourselves? And if we are in alignment with source then shouldn't we know that its not our job to decide for anyone except ourselves? I've not known any child with cancer, but I feel that it must be a tremendous pull in the wrong direction for a child to be told by doctors that they are unwell if they don't feel it, and then to be told whats best for them, if they don't feel it themselves.

I know from my experience, today at the hospital, how domineering the doctors were, all 8 of them. I'm 38 and they still try to tell me how to feel and how its going to be. If I'm honest I feel great I don't feel ill but by the time you leave the hospital you do feel ill. I can only imagine how that must intensify if you are a child. It may be a good thing to remove them from the environment off illness and dis-ease into an environment of fun, joy and hopefulness at the very least for a holiday.

We all know what a difference there is between being happy and being down. I don't know what's right for anyone else but me so I guess this is just a thought. I also know that I would like to do something along these lines after my healing so I'd appreciate any input and guidance offered. I know I could never know enough and I'm always expanding. Be true to yourself and know and express love.

Steve.x